Dating: Lust Vs. Love.. Do You Know the Difference

“Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself agaisnt the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ.”

2 Corithians 10:5 KJV

Lust can almost instanlty be mistaken for Love at first sight.

It’s about physical attraction as well as idealistation.

When you lust after someone, you more than likely can not see them clearly, even if the other indivial might be a plain Jane or geeky Gregory.

Your lustourous ways may make them quite attractive.

Not to say plain Janes or Geeky Greogory’s are not attractive.

I am stating your lustful ways, may make them to be more attractive than you are giving them credit for.

The lustful sitiuation may also led to a very attractive indiviual with not a clue as to life.

Lust almost all times, leads to disappointments in lustful situational relationships.

Lust- Is an intense physical attraction you desire in a partner due to a strong sexual / desire connection.

Lust keeps growing in the indiviual that feeds it.

Lust requires immediate attention and satisfaction.

Lust is a harsh word that should not be looked upon lightly.

Lust is the exact opposite of Love.

Lust demands it’s own way.

Love- is an emotional desire to connect with and be close to another indiviual.

Love creates a feeling of attraction to someone not based on his or her outward appearance, but the qualities that emcompass his or her inner self.

As I have grown spiritually, for myself, I am all for Love, the Lustful thing comes later within a marraige.

The main diffenece between Love and Lust is that Love is a selfless concern for another.

Where Lust is totally self centered.

Lust is a whole hearted craving and belief in a Lie that satan has crafted.

The lie varies with the sitauation and person being tempted.

 Tests of True Love

 LOVE is a deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness. .. It is often mistaken for love because the attraction is so strong.

True love feels like security and stability.

You don’t worry about breaking up or your partner leaving you abruptly.

When they go out of town, you might miss them, but you are also happy for them, because you want them to travel and have new experiences.

Your love has balance and no sense of suspicion or possession.

How do I know if it’s love or lust?

The ‘In Lust‘ period some signs that you’re mainly in lust with your current partner: You’re both more focused on physical appearance when it comes to attraction.

It’s all about the bedroom!!!!!

You have a strong desire for sexual connection, but not a deep emotional attachment.

You avoid conversation about real emotions and feelings.

When it comes to lust vs. love, there are a few things you should know. 

Lust vs. LoveLust is an intense physical attraction.

You desire your partner due to a strong sexual connection. 

Love is patient love is Kind.

Attraction is a strong interest or liking for someone or something. 

Lust is a strong craving for sex.

It also can mean a hunger for anything, like lust for power.

Someone gluttonous lusts for food.

The most basic meaning of lust is an unquenchable desire for sex, but people lust for all sorts of things.

Lust is a uncontrollable desire or craving that last anywhere from a couple of months to a year.

It doesnt last if there isnt any love involved.

What I have just written about comes from situations I had once gotten myself into before I found my redemption.

I now can differentiate the two.

“There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.”

Romans 8: 1 KJV

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